Introduction

Introduction

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Imagine this meeting. Anna speaks about the screws that must be changed in a machine. Bob reacts by making a joke about what screws and pastors have in common. Marc reacts about the joke with a tiny detail too. And finally the conversation is about the type of cake we should get for the birthday of Julia. At this moment you ask yourself: "How did we get here?".

This story shows that humans get quickly side tracked in meetings. And as we get lost we need some ways to keep us on track.

So here are three things you can do to ensure everybody sees the progress that is being made in the meeting and can stay on topic:

  1. Put sticky notes on a wall and move them during the conversation

  2. Use one sticky note per idea or topic

  3. Write in an easy to read way

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Introduction

  • Meet your coach
  • What you won't learn
  • The three big meeting problems we'll tackle
  • The seven tricks I'll teach you
  • When did I write this course?

1. Setup roles and rules so that it feels like a game

  • Introduction
  • Set the time keeper role or bad cop
  • Set the caring parent role or good cop
  • Set minimal rules and make people agree to them personally
  • Remember this

2. Define a time limit per topic to ensure you end up on time

  • Introduction
  • Realize that you have less time than planned
  • Set a buffer time
  • Set a visible timer for each topic
  • Remember this

3. Use sticky notes to show where the discussion is

  • Introduction
  • Put sticky notes on a wall and use them to build clarity
  • Use one sticky note per idea, group it and move it
  • Write in an easy to read way
  • Remember this

4. Create a parking space for new ideas and off topic elements

  • Introduction
  • Make the parking visible and tell the story
  • Have time? Review the parking at the end
  • In a rush? Add categories in your parking
  • Remember this

5. Use votes to not talk for hours about what's already obvious

  • Introduction
  • Give multiple dots to vote and make it fun
  • Use faith or another culturally relevant voting criteria
  • Use multiple rounds of votes for complex decisions
  • Remember this

6. Make people work in smaller groups and then share the summary

  • Introduction
  • Split for discussion and join for sharing
  • Make groups of no more than 4
  • Give a clear challenge, a clear timing and a clear end result
  • Remember this

7. Separate the mindsets to make it less confusing

  • Introduction
  • Separate coming up with ideas and deciding
  • Separate the criteria when deciding
  • Mark the separation of mindsets
  • Remember this

What you learned and how to make it stick

  • Introduction
  • Review the summary and the one thing to remember
  • Learn by teaching
  • Make a plan

End notes

  • Introduction
  • Thank you note
  • License