Make the parking visible and tell the story

Make the parking visible and tell the story

An illustration of a car mechanic working on a car that is elevated

When I have enough time, I tell this story of the nuclear plant and the bike shed. And then I explain to the meeting participants that I want that we stay focused on the important conversation. Therefore I have created a little parking space. It's there for all the other interesting ideas that are smart but not in the focus for today. I then take a big sticky note and write down: "Parking" on it. And then, I stick it on the wall.

I often conclude by saying:

You know, I'm a passionate guy, if you see that I go in too much details about something, you can ask me: "Daniele, I feel this is a bike shed topic, shall we put it in the parking?". And as you will do this with me, I'll allow myself to do the same with you.

If you don't have much time, leave the story but still explain that you have a parking spot for everything that needs to be remembered but is out of focus for today.

By the way, the story of the nuclear plant is one that is inspired by the term "bike shedding". If you want to look smart in your next dinner party read the Wikipedia article about it, it's a lovely conversation starter.

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Introduction

  • Meet your coach
  • What you won't learn
  • The three big meeting problems we'll tackle
  • The seven tricks I'll teach you
  • When did I write this course?

1. Setup roles and rules so that it feels like a game

  • Introduction
  • Set the time keeper role or bad cop
  • Set the caring parent role or good cop
  • Set minimal rules and make people agree to them personally
  • Remember this

2. Define a time limit per topic to ensure you end up on time

  • Introduction
  • Realize that you have less time than planned
  • Set a buffer time
  • Set a visible timer for each topic
  • Remember this

3. Use sticky notes to show where the discussion is

  • Introduction
  • Put sticky notes on a wall and use them to build clarity
  • Use one sticky note per idea, group it and move it
  • Write in an easy to read way
  • Remember this

4. Create a parking space for new ideas and off topic elements

  • Introduction
  • Make the parking visible and tell the story
  • Have time? Review the parking at the end
  • In a rush? Add categories in your parking
  • Remember this

5. Use votes to not talk for hours about what's already obvious

  • Introduction
  • Give multiple dots to vote and make it fun
  • Use faith or another culturally relevant voting criteria
  • Use multiple rounds of votes for complex decisions
  • Remember this

6. Make people work in smaller groups and then share the summary

  • Introduction
  • Split for discussion and join for sharing
  • Make groups of no more than 4
  • Give a clear challenge, a clear timing and a clear end result
  • Remember this

7. Separate the mindsets to make it less confusing

  • Introduction
  • Separate coming up with ideas and deciding
  • Separate the criteria when deciding
  • Mark the separation of mindsets
  • Remember this

What you learned and how to make it stick

  • Introduction
  • Review the summary and the one thing to remember
  • Learn by teaching
  • Make a plan

End notes

  • Introduction
  • Thank you note
  • License